Orr Family Farms

So after a mostly uneventful Monday of flying into OKC (Aiden did great on the flight and enjoyed watching the gears and hydraulics moving the flaps on the wing our window looked out at) and just hanging out a Nana and Papa Bob's we decided to fill our Tuesday with some adventures. Nana, Tay, Aiden and I started the day out at Orr Family Farms. It is a working horse training facility outside of OKC which has also added a family/kid friendly farm activity area. It was very clean, not too crowded, and had a lot of fun things for Aiden to do.


He really enjoyed learning how to milk a cow. Can you see the concentration?

The farm also had a section with some very large jump pillows. They were basically an inflated trampoline which we all enjoyed jumping on, including my cute wife!

There were lots of things for Aiden to ride on at the farm. We opted for the fake horse instead of paying for a pony ride, which turned out to be money well saved because he didn't seem very interested in the horses.

He enjoyed riding the big red truck during his lunch break. You may notice the cheeks puffed full of peanut butter sandwich!

He had a lot of fun on the old fashioned Merry-Go-Round.

But, his favorite was definitely the train ride. You can't beat a Thomas look alike and getting to sit with Mommy and Nana.

The conductor even let him get in and blow the whistle!

We ended the day with the "hay ride" which was really just riding in a trailer being pulled by a big tractor out to the pumpkin patch where we all got to pick out a pumpkin.

I was happy that Aiden chose one that I could carry rather than this one.

We had a great time, and then headed home for the rest of the awesome activities for the day.

Oklahoma Trip

Early on in the summer Nana and Papa Bob called us and asked that we come and visit since it had been too long since they had last seen us (read: Aiden). We had a busy summer planned out, and the thought of long days out in the heat didn't sound that fun, so we postponed the trip to this past week. That turned out to be a great idea, because we have had some great weather, and have really enjoyed ourselves.

We've been in Oklahoma since Monday, and will head home early Saturday. The break from work has been wonderful, and Tay and I have been able to have a couple of date nights while being here. It has also been a lot of fun to see Aiden bond with his grandparents.

Anyways, the next couple of posts will be about our trip and the fun activities we have had.

Blue Bell Factory

This past Friday Tay and Aiden joined the Meads on a pilgrimage to one of the most revered places in Texas, The Blue Bell Factory. I, unfortunately, was stuck at work while everyone else got to see where and how the best ice cream in the world is made.

Here is Aiden with Garner III and Julie.

Aiden really enjoyed the tour, because he loves to see big machines and how they work. At the end of the tour, you get a bowl of ice cream.

There is nothing better than sticky ice cream fingers!

Seriously guys, WHY?

WHY does it take so long to come up with an idea for a family costume theme that your husband likes and actually agrees to, THEN takes longer to shop for a costume "cool" enough (which really means ridiculous enough to get some laughs), THEN you have to comparison shop that costume over a dozen halloween sites, dig up free shipping coupon codes and FINALLY order it four hours later only to have him say "Meh. Whatever. Halloween is silly" when your 3 year-old can think of nothing else and is crushed by the fact it's still two months away?!! And why is it that said husband never remembers that the cool guys ALWAYS dress up and it's never until AFTER halloween - when he's seen the other wives giggle, applaud & cheer over the other dad's costumes - that he decides he's finally ready to "really" dress up, only to forget it come next year? Luckily Brian is learning to trust me and realize he'll actually have fun!

Despite the round & round on ideas, we finally came up with a combination that meets all our needs where Brian is dressed funny, I am modest & girlie and Aiden's costume is fitting of his personality. This year Brian & Aiden are going as vikings and I am their kidnapped fair maiden. So fitting... Me at the mercy of a pair of marauding barbarians, imagine that! LOL! I'll be in flowy, feminine renaissance-ish dress and the boys will be in rugged nordic garb complete with horned helmets & swords. (I'm making Aiden's costume to resemble Brian's, which is going to be fun, too!) This halloween is going to ROCK!!!

Imaginative Play CAN Be Taught!

Several months ago I found some curved waldorf blocks (Montecarlo Blocks from Grimm's Spiel & Holz - see below) and while I was shopping online, I stumbled across this picture of colorful blocks that Aiden LOVED looking at online:



Inspired by it but not liking the ridiculous price of buying all the block sets shown (about $500), I got the curved blocks, bought some unfinished cut wood shapes off Etsy and picked up some rainbow glass pebbles at Michael's so Aiden could invent his own make believe things.

In July I took Aiden to the library and also let him pick out DVDs from their scant collection. He selected a Tinkerbell movie where she invents things and goes on some ridiculous adventure. Aiden was so enthralled by the way she used sticks, leaves & natural things to make "machines" that he wanted to "make Tinkerbell fairy things". I suggested we start by making Tinkerbell a place to live out of his blocks & things, which spiraled into a whole world of imaginary play for him that I'm loving!

See the rainbow pebble cobblestone walkway? (A "sidewalk" for "driving on") Aiden also decided she needed some mushrooms planted nearby her little gnome house.

I built the blue block wall (first picture above) and let Aiden watch me. Then I began making the above multi-colored wall and got about 3 pieces touching before he completely took over! When we first got the curvy block set he was *PISSED* that they would not line up to make nice, straight sidewalks. (My exact intent - the kid should learn something besides straight lines!) Once I showed him how to stack the blocks, make curvy-edged lagoons for his plastic dinosaurs & how to balance the symetrical arched blocks, he's enjoyed these much more! I have too and am always on the lookout for more creative waldorf playthings I can pick up on Etsy or make myself. :)

Meanwhile, it's also nice to have fun, silly things to pretend play with. I would have loved something like this as a child and would have played for hours on end! (No doubt it's why I'm giving them to Aiden now!) And I'm not worried about the "girlie fairy" things rubbing off.... Not shown is Frank the Combine Tractor plowing down everything in sight and then Chuy the Bulldozer picking up the "what a mess" glass pebbles and putting them into his deep fry basket (a vintage object I found in Granbury that is now a sand & water play toy), shoving the basket into one of the empty cubbys (that doubles as a play oven since I lined it with a metal oven rack) and cooking them into "candy". All of this ended by throwing the glass pebbles & blocks everywhere - Hurricane Aiden style - before he calmly walked out of the playroom, towing star blanket, to go wreak havoc somewhere else! Yep, he's got that fairy play thing down.... LOL!

The Blokus King

Aiden has recently gotten into (sort of) playing preschool games and one day two weeks ago he spied the Blokus box as I was putting away one of his games with the rest of them. He asked for them and I paused, thinking they were nothing but little pentominoes (educational) and they were brightly colored, making them easy to pick up if he decided to throw them. Sure, why not?

What I didn't expect was for Aiden to become so serious and spend a FULL 45 MINUTES IN SILENCE attempting to fill his Blokus board with all the pieces. I was stunned! Why hadn't I thought of that activity sooner? I fetched the camera because I thought no one would believe me and here they are (pics are from August 11 which is why he still has hair!)



He's in deep concentration, sitting nicely, not throwing anything...who is this kid?



Logically testing & turning the pieces to see which way it will fit...

Experimenting with new combinations to see if he can squeeze more pieces in the same area previously occupied by pieces that did not fit together nicely... (That would be Brian's efficiency he's working with! Hopefully combined with mom's spatial intelligence?)

And now that he's done, he's got to drive Filmore on it because he is only 3 and EVERYTHING he builds must be "road tested" this way to determine it's driveability...LOL!

Now when I need a few minutes of quiet to get something done, Blokus comes to the rescue! Gosh I love this kid and sometimes he sure does impress me with his math-and-logic-based creativity!

Preschool Fever and.....Cereal?

Aiden has suddenly fallen in LOVE with all things preschool. I've been doing "preschool" at home with him for months but he's just now caught on with the whole excitement of back to school.

I'm quietly against child avertising so I only let Aiden watch PBS kids (very, very minimal ads for things like raisins, health food, children's gyms, etc.) and DVDs. He doesn't see hardly any "regular" TV. He has, however, seen the new Frosted Mini Wheats commercials where the cereal squares sit on the children's shoulders as they bound off the school bus, dressed in brand new clothes with coordinating backpacks bursting with brand new school supplies. This obviously has caught the imagination of Aiden because when we were at the store today picking up bread, he spotted the cereal from an impossible distance away. (Ooh, good! He got mom's 20/15 vision!) We then were NOT leaving the store without "preschool cereal". (Hmm... 5 grams of fiber and it's a carb - besides oreos - that he'll eat? DEAL.)

When we got home we were NOT having anything for lunch besides "preschool cereal". I poured him a bowl and watched him happily shovel in a few bites before I noticed him pause, look at the box, glance over his shoulder, look at the box, poke his cereal..... I reminded him to eat cereal with a spoon when he said "I want cereal to sit on my shoulder?" I laughed out loud and had to explain to him what he'd seen on TV was pretend but assured him this was indeed "preschool cereal" and that it helped him do good at preschool things. (Bah! It's not completely untrue. I just doubt the cereal will teach him the proper order of numbers bewteen 12 and 20 and that "forty six" is not one of them....)

With any luck this will help me get some food in him on the mornings he'll have SPARKS (the free mom & tot pre-school our district does to help children learn what is expected of them in a classroom). Now if only they had "preschool chair glue" so I could get the kid to sit still or "preschool pay attention fairy dust" so he would listen to directions longer than a single word! Even better would be a "preschool snare gun" and "preschool tranquilizer darts" but CPS may frown upon those.... For now I'm tempted to load up the yellow backpack Aiden sometimes runs around in with bricks to slow him down a bit but with my luck it would only build up his endurance! :D Ah, the joys of parenting!